This story from Andre Dubus highlights the psychological damage that can arise when young people are shamed for not fitting community or cultural norms. A mother’s efforts to control her daughter’s diet results in a serious eating disorder. Later, a weight-loss program initiated by a well-meaning college roommate leads to a confused self-image, an unfulfilling, shallow marriage and, when she becomes pregnant, recurrence of the eating disorder. Fortunately, the birth of a son brings about an epiphany through which she is finally able to be comfortable with who she is. Themes: conformity, identity, food and dieting, body shaming, friendship, transformation.
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