Many readers find this Jonathan Foer story confusing because of its unconventional style. It comprises a series of short, seemingly random recollections and observations about a couple’s past, often in the form of negative declarations. On the first read, the differences between the two people appear so vast that it is hard to see how they could remain happy together. Themes include the swift passing of time, personality growth as we age, understanding and accepting differences, and the development of a relationship from individuals (”I” and “You”) to a couple (“We”) and then a family (“We” and “He”). More…